alright so i’m going to answer a few questions i get about the blog here and pin the post
why can’t i message the blog?
i have no idea why i can no longer send and receive messages on this blog. i’ve tried to get it fixed but i have yet to receive any response to my emails. it’s been this way since 16 july 2021
why is your ask box closed?
it’s probably one person sending inappropriate or weird asks and i’m giving them a subtle hint. that’s normally why it’s off. if my ask box isn’t open now, it will be soon :)
are you active on here?
i’m still around, every single day. i’m trying to take some casual breaks from tumblr though because (like all social media) it takes a toll, even when you follow only the best blogs and most wonderful people
it’s literally impossible to follow every single suggestion here?
this blog has hundreds of suggestions and many are incompatible on some level, mostly because they’re applicable to different situations. the point of a suggestion is just that: it’s a suggestion and it exists to make you think, not a command for you to act upon without considering what’s being said. you don’t have to agree and you can disregard it if you don’t believe it’s right for you.
what should i do if i don’t agree with one of your suggestions?
scroll on. not every suggestion will be relevant to you and your life. that said, if you think a suggestion can be improved so it’s of greater benefit to others, reblog it with your (constructive) thoughts or suggest how i should amend it.
how can i message you?
my main is @outpostink and you’re welcome to message me there :)
marlynnofmany

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