alright so i’m going to answer a few questions i get about the blog here and pin the post

why can’t i message the blog?

i have no idea why i can no longer send and receive messages on this blog. i’ve tried to get it fixed but i have yet to receive any response to my emails. it’s been this way since 16 july 2021

why is your ask box closed?

it’s probably one person sending inappropriate or weird asks and i’m giving them a subtle hint. that’s normally why it’s off. if my ask box isn’t open now, it will be soon :)

are you active on here?

i’m still around, every single day. i’m trying to take some casual breaks from tumblr though because (like all social media) it takes a toll, even when you follow only the best blogs and most wonderful people

it’s literally impossible to follow every single suggestion here?

this blog has hundreds of suggestions and many are incompatible on some level, mostly because they’re applicable to different situations. the point of a suggestion is just that: it’s a suggestion and it exists to make you think, not a command for you to act upon without considering what’s being said. you don’t have to agree and you can disregard it if you don’t believe it’s right for you.

what should i do if i don’t agree with one of your suggestions?

scroll on. not every suggestion will be relevant to you and your life. that said, if you think a suggestion can be improved so it’s of greater benefit to others, reblog it with your (constructive) thoughts or suggest how i should amend it.

how can i message you?

my main is @outpostink and you’re welcome to message me there :)

 dimpledthings

  dimpledthings

it may seem ironic but you’re not the only one feeling lonely right now. reach out — you’ll be surprised how many friendly, helping hands you find

 dimpledthings

  dimpledthings

i want to create so many good times and places for you that you have no choice but to believe you’re in heaven. because sometimes this world fails you and is no substitute for the world you deserve

 orangejoeofficial

  orangejoeofficial

Oh to be home alone dancing with a boy and neither of us are any good but all that matters is that we’re together and having fun. Maybe one of us trips a little and we hold each other closer. Maybe we kiss.

 fairiepunk

  fairiepunk

THIS!!! This is what Trans Joy looks like!!!

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I legally changed my name today, and I’m just so so happy. I feel like the weight of the world has been lifted from my shoulders.

 our-queer-experience

  our-queer-experience

you know what my favorite part about being trans is? the glorification of average, ‘nonapealing’ things.

i love my saggy arms and the fat on my belly and the thin wisps of hair on my face and my acne and hairy legs and messy hair and unkempt nail and stretch marks and surgery scars and square and flat stare and bushy eyebrows. these things bring me so much joy and they make me feel at home in my body. i wouldnt trade them for the world <3

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